Black Tie Party

“My boyfriend’s company is hosting a black-tie party this year, and it’s the first time I’ll be attending such a formal event. I’ve already chosen a classic gown, but I’m completely at a loss when it comes to jewelry. I’d really like something striking that will help me feel confident and elevate my usual diamond studs look. How do I choose the right show-stopping piece without overdoing it?”
— Signed, Clueless but Clasped

Eric Ford: I’d suggest getting a killer pair of chandelier earrings and then move those diamond studs into a second piercing to create a whole ear story. If you want to be really bold, you could also add a matching ear cuff. Have fun!

EF: Matching bypass or toi et mois rings featuring both of your birthstones (as long as they’re complementary colors!) either adorned with diamonds or unembellished is a really meaningful way to commemorate your relationship, while still looking stylish. If you’re looking for a more masculine look for the piece and want an alternative metal, consider something in a blue titanium.

EF: This is a great opportunity to get your granddaughter started on developing a personalized neck narrative. You could start with something as simple as an initial pendant with or without diamonds. Over the years, she can continue to add to the look on her own, or this can become “your thing” for future gift-giving occasions. Necklace stacks are so individual, and they should take time to build, which allows you the ability to stay close and connected to your granddaughter; your thoughtful gifts will serve as a constant reminder of your love and adoration.

Given that it’s a new job and we don’t yet know how “hands on” her role will be, either at a computer or otherwise, I’d avoid bangles or rings since they might get in the way of performing her tasks.